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greerwatson ([personal profile] greerwatson) wrote2015-12-19 02:07 am

Go Gently into that Good Night

My mother died on 17 December shortly after 11 p.m., exactly one month after her 94th birthday.

My sister Flo and I were with her. For the last hours, we were moved into a separate room so that we would not be disturbed. The ICU at Toronto General is very sensitive to the needs of both family and patient; and we much appreciated it. They had a radio, which we tuned to a classical music station (for my mother generally had music on at home); and Flo and I simply sat and talked, sometimes about our mother's life and sometimes other things, but maintaining a pretty steady chat. As our mother drifted deeper, the sounds that she heard were those of familiar voices and background music, as close as possible to having a nap at home.

She died peacefully in her sleep.
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[personal profile] queen_ypolita 2015-12-19 07:45 am (UTC)(link)
So sorry about your loss - thinking of you both.
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[personal profile] brightknightie 2015-12-19 05:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, Greer. I wish you and your sister very well through this difficult time.
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[personal profile] toujours_nigel 2015-12-20 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you and Flo find the strength and serenity to carry on through this; will be thinking you both fondly and frequently.